The phrasing employed in wedding invitations when the parents of the couple are divorced requires careful consideration. The objective is to create wording that is respectful, inclusive, and avoids highlighting any potential familial conflict. For instance, if both parents are contributing financially, the invitation may state “Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Doe, and Mr. Robert Brown and Mrs. Susan Green request the honor of your presence…” Alternatively, if one parent is hosting, the invitation could read “Ms. Jane Doe requests the honor of your presence at the marriage of her daughter…”.
Appropriate expression in such invitations is important because it sets the tone for the wedding. It prevents the invitation from becoming a source of unnecessary stress or discomfort for the couple, their families, and guests. Historically, wedding invitations were primarily issued by the bride’s parents. However, societal shifts and evolving family structures necessitate more flexible and inclusive approaches to invitation wording.
