The eligibility of a man to serve as a deacon if he is married to a woman who has been previously divorced is a complex matter with differing interpretations across Christian denominations. Some traditions, drawing on specific biblical passages regarding marriage and divorce, maintain a stricter stance, viewing a previous divorce of the wife as a potential impediment to ordination. This perspective often emphasizes the ideal of marriage as a lifelong covenant and the importance of the deacon’s family life serving as a model for the congregation.
Other denominations adopt a more nuanced approach. They consider the circumstances surrounding the divorce, the timing of the marriage (whether it occurred before or after the man’s diaconal calling), and the couple’s current spiritual standing within the church. In these cases, the decision regarding eligibility often rests with the local bishop, diocesan authorities, or denominational leadership, who may evaluate the situation on a case-by-case basis. Factors such as repentance, reconciliation, and the overall well-being of the couple are frequently taken into consideration.
