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The appropriate manner of referring to a woman who has ended a marriage involves consideration of individual preference and respect for her current circumstances. Determining how a woman wishes to be addressed by her given name, her former married name, or perhaps a new married name if she has remarried is paramount. This can be ascertained directly, or indirectly through trusted mutual acquaintances. Using “Ms.” as a title is generally considered a safe and respectful option when unsure of her preference. For example, if her given name is Jane and her former married name was Smith, using “Ms. Jane” is appropriate. It avoids assumptions about her current marital status.

Choosing the correct form of address conveys professionalism, empathy, and understanding. It demonstrates social intelligence and sensitivity to a potentially delicate situation. Historically, societal expectations placed considerable emphasis on a woman’s marital status, impacting her identity and social standing. While these expectations have diminished, respecting individual choices regarding how one is addressed remains crucial for fostering positive interactions. Prioritizing an individual’s preference helps build trust and avoids causing unintended offense or discomfort.

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